As I entered an establishment with my daughter to have some blood work completed one early Saturday morning, there were people in the waiting room, but the room was still. I noticed a young lady who was bent over in her chair travailing in tears; it was obvious she was in pain as she held her abdomen and was continuously rocking herself. As I looked around the room, no one expressed an interest in this young lady’s discomfort, not even the staff. I sat beside her, and I just could not take watching her in agony any longer. I leaned over to her quietly to offer a helping hand. She proceeded to tell me the cause of her discomfort so I questioned her as to why she opted to come to the establishment as opposed to visiting the emergency room. Apparently, it was a required process with her employer and it turns out that she was reluctant in going to the ER due to a past bad experience. I even questioned a staff member as to her condition and the staff member stated that they had talked to the young lady about seeking urgent care. But it was interesting that throughout all the activity, the waiting room remained still until another lady entered and quickly drew her attention to what was going on. My daughter and I, along with the one lady who was drawn to what was going on, accompanied the young lady for some time, encouraging and praying with her, until her fiance was able to pick her up.
After this experience, I questioned the situation. Have we gotten so self-focused and consumed with our own circumstances that we are reserved and reluctant to lending a helping hand? Or is it a fear or embarrassment to help others? I recall there being a time when there was an emergency, it seems like people would come from every direction to help. But it has been some time since I’ve witnessed this level of concern. It is evident that we are truly living and experiencing perilous times, the last days, when men have become lovers of their own selves (2 Timothy 3:2). But when we take the time to step out of ourselves and lend a helping hand to others, the blessing surely returns.